It lead to her becoming sad, depressed and finding comfort in food. Roxane's weight gain was triggered by a rape she went through and then suppressed. The person she is is found on her inside. She doesn't think her body represents her either, which is another reason she doesn't want it to be a part of who she is. Therefore, she should not be something that other people can choose to do with as they want. She has no control over it - she had no control over it as she was raped by several people when she was twelve. Roxane doesn't wish to think of her body as a part of her, because it is so heavily affected by the people around her and their actions. Why doesn't Roxane Gay think of her body as a part of her? Written by people who wish to remain anonymous
We are thankful for their contributions and encourage you to make your own. It feels as relevant and true as ever.These notes were contributed by members of the GradeSaver community. It was thought provoking and frustrating and comforting at different times and in different ways and it does manage to hold up well five years after publication. I finished the audiobook in a day and enjoyed the performance as the book was read by Gay herself. Those stories, in conversation with but also isolated from the particularly more obvious implications around attractiveness and self-esteem, show how much extra mental strain it takes to live in a world that was not designed for you in one or many ways. This part of the story sort of runs in dual narrative to the one in which she reconciles what it means to live with what she dubs a "unruly" body.įrom discussing the added layers of anxiety about finding a suitable place to sit when going out to having more limited physical mobility to facing a lack of care and respect when seeing medical providers, each essay discusses a new hurdle to not perfectly conforming to societal expectations of size. While an intense part of the narrative, I found it to be an extremely important thread to draw together an impact of a trauma like that on people's relationships with food, whether that leads to something like binge eating or another kind of disordered eating behavior, those are very real and not uncommon reactions. Even though you likely won't be able to relate to most of the specifics of her story in one way or another, she writes in a sense that invites the reader to connect with the essential truths beyond the details and reflect on the gross, unfortunate, humiliating, and demoralizing ways that we frame bodies and the people who inhabit those bodies in our society.Īnother huge part of the book revolves around responding to the trauma of being sexually assaulted in her childhood and how that became the impetus for seeing food as safety and food as refuge. There are few people for which food isn't at least a somewhat fraught topic, but it's so rarely honestly and boldly discussed, and that's likely why this book became so popular. Hunger is comprised of a multitude of short essays that follow a narrative arc generally starting in her childhood and ending in her present thoughts, feelings, and realities around her size and relationship with food. Still, that's the only approach that would allow any substance in a book like this. This book is quite heavy and does not hold back when it comes to a multitude of potentially harmful or triggering topics, so proceed with caution.
Over the years, I've seen Tweets or heard random podcast episodes with Gay, so I was curious to finally read her writing. I was re-reminded of it as Roxane Gay announced she was pulling her podcast from Spotify as not to share airspace with Joe Rogan. It was a book I needed to read for a project, and all I really knew was that this book had been a big deal when it had first come out. When I was looking through my TBR trying to figure out what to read next, I discovered that Hunger was available on audiobook from my library and immediately dove in without reading any kind of summary.
TWs: discussion of eating disorders, sexual assault